Free Ministry Resources for Pastors & Churches

Practical, trauma-informed ministry resources to help churches respond well to sexual betrayal, online infidelity, pornography, and relational trauma.

If you're a pastor, ministry leader, or church caregiver supporting someone affected by sexual betrayal, these free Christian betrayal trauma downloads will help you respond with greater understanding, compassion and practical support.

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Access these Free Resources:

• You Are Not Alone:

  A Resource for Men Battling Pornography and Sexual Sin

• Two Hearts ~ One Room:

  For pastors caring for the betrayed spouse and the betraying partner as two people with distinct wounds and distinct needs.

• Broken Cisterns:

  A Trauma-Informed, Biblically Grounded Worksheet on Attachment Wounds and Addictive Behaviour

• Porn-Proofing Your Marriage:

  A Guide to Open, Honest Conversations for Christian Couples

• A Youth Pastor Reference Guide: Faith, Sexuality and Pornography 

• Guarding Their Hearts Online:

  Practical steps for parents to protect a tween or teen from pornography and online dangers — and how to talk about it without fear or shame

• A Safe Place at the Foot of the Cross:

  Creating a church culture where those wrestling with sexual sin, betrayal, or past sexual trauma can bring their whole story into the light.

• Words That Wound, Words That Heal: A quick-reference guide to language that shames abuse survivors — and what to say instead.

• For the Pastor's Eyes Only:

  A Resource for Shepherds Battling Secret Pornography Use, Online Infidelity, and Adultery