I’ve just returned from a marvellous vacation in Greece—achingly beautiful, wonderfully rich with history and culture, and even at the tail end of September, fiercely hot.

He says he’s sorry.

 When sexual betrayal is discovered, women often hear some version of:

If you've ever whispered that question through tears—or even just wondered it, in the quiet of your own heart—you are not alone. In fact, it's a common question that haunts too many women after discovering their partner’s secret pornography use or other sexual betrayal.

One of the deepest wounds of sexual betrayal isn't the betrayal itself.