Christian Sexual Integrity & Pastoral Care Resources

Church leaders are often invited into people's most painful and complicated stories. These free Christian resources are provided to equip pastors, ministry leaders, and church caregivers to respond wisely and compassionately to pornography, sexual betrayal, abuse, sexual sin, and sexual trauma—with practical tools for creating safety, encouraging honesty, and caring well for everyone involved.

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You Are Not Alone

A Resource for Men Battling Pornography and Sexual Sin

Broken Cisterns

A Trauma-Informed, Biblically Grounded Worksheet on Getting to the Root of  Attachment Wounds and Addictive Behaviour

Two Hearts - One Room

Caring for both the betrayed spouse and the betraying partner as two people with distinct wounds and distinct needs.

Porn-Proofing Your Marriage

A Guide to Open, Honest Conversations for Christian Couples

Walking With Them in Grace

A Youth Pastor's Guide to Conversations about Faith, Sexuality and Pornography 

Guarding Their Hearts Online

Practical steps for parents to protect tweens & teens from pornography and online dangers — and how to talk about it without fear or shame

A Safe Place at the Foot of the Cross

Creating a church culture where those wrestling with sexual sin, betrayal, or past sexual trauma can bring their whole story into the light.

Words That Wound, Words That Heal

A quick-reference guide to language that shames abuse survivors — and what to say instead.

When Someone Tells You               

A Pastor's First-Response Guide to Sexual Betrayal, Pornography Use, Abuse & Sexual Sin  

Grace with Guardrails

A Pastor’s Guide to Safety, Boundaries, Accountability, and Wise Restoration After Sexual Betrayal

For the Pastor's Eyes Only

A Resource for Shepherds Battling Secret Pornography Use, Online Infidelity, and Adultery